You'd probably say no.
I used to think so.
I also used to think empowerment didn't mean all that much..why must we prove ourselves? I'm still not convinced. And I'm not saying that out of not having/ having something to prove, it's just why do we need to exist for some greater purpose? That's honestly my belief..and I like life. I think there's a lot of good stuff and fun to be had.
As well as the horseshit; but really it's a case of bringing the evils so down that they eventually become something/one you can tackle or become the bigger person put them into a too stupid to bother with box! There's some people who need something bigger than what you can do daily to get through to them, and what you do is never good enough. They're a waste and they fit the term loser very well. But like I say I'm never going to keep it in, my feelings about such wastes will be made very clear.
So, I've been watching enough porn, to really get to see the differences between the porn stars and also studios. There are some which make feature movies..which fit the term adult movie quite correctly. (PLEASE make Training Day). These movies are glamourous but to me they lack a certain factor. I'll explain one day when I've thought about that enough.
Oh my God and also they have movies with a man recieving a blow job with just their cock showing listed as "anonymous cock." That's bullshit to me. No matter how much I want to see a woman giving a man a blowjob, the power, the eroticism of it comes from the man. To me.
My favourite porn star at the moment is Chris Johnson. There's something sweet about him. He has this athletic figure and friendly eyes and just a nice disposition ..I mean it's porn and he's nice and that's important. He pays attention to women. He is excellent at licking their pussy, he's clearly loves breasts and nipples, no matter what size a woman's breasts are, he's one of the stars who will spend time there and he treats them like he's so into women. Because of all this, I love to see him getting a blow job.
So I read an interview and he's I think Christian, believes in God and had his parents really have to come to terms with what he does, if they even have yet. He seems like an all round okay person.
In any industry there must be really nasty, vile people..I definetely don't think porn is run by them or has them as performers. You get a mix of people and I don't necessarily think that because it's porn the majority of the producers must be dubious people. Of course one can say the ultimate thing is sex sells and they're cashing in on that, but sex is also a passion. I mean I love it and I know a lot of people do, not just men at all. I love watching someone I find sexy have sex, female or male. There's some female porn stars who are incredibly sexy and it's not the ones with the largest boobs or the tightest body, if you're just a one trick pony, I don't know about anyone else, but that ain't enough to get me off.
It's really about the performance. I'd much rather listen and talk to a man about porn than one who has a so many Maxim or Nuts magazines. I've read those magazines, I go on their websites, they're okay, Nuts makes you snicker at times, Maxim is completely massmarket "hottie", but there IS something about a woman in porn, she's not just an object, she's a living, moving, breathing woman who wants her sexual needs met. Is she objectified? Yes of course. But whilst she has this appearance and she's looking into the camera and the man is objectifying her to some extent if not the full extent, I would think that if you're a performer in porn, the better you are, the more chance you have of not just doing the movies for money but doing them because you want to explore all the positions and your exhibitionist side and having sex with all these different performers in an environment that is regulated, maybe not alwaws fully, i dont know but at least to some extent lets even say its seems pretty well regulated. I also wonder if it's the solely the porn stars own responsibility to keep themselves clean and safe or ther producers also act as a help?
So is the industry empowering or is the female porn star empowering? I'd say to some extent she is and to more of an extent, the industry is. I want sex to be completely out there. There should be mystery also and sensuality..we have lost sensuality..but I think there's something wrong about Western Culture where we have a uniform of Paris Hiltons, Kim Kardashians, then Britney type singers, you'll have a music industry judge and manager say to a girl wearing a skirt with the legs and the hair extentions you're sexy, you should be in music, we have female University students sending in topless pictures but sex..ooh let's boast about it, it becomes about numbers, but there is still so much hidden stuff. Use your feminity to get ahead but as for being seen as a woman who enjoys sex..! And back to the students sending in topless pics, there IS something really sad in doing that just for money. I'd do it if I found that sexy, if the camera was part of my sexuality, maybe it is, I've yet to see. But how funny that in porn with all it's cliches, stereotypes and taboo nature, there's something honest to be had out of it. That's why I love porn.
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